My 14-year-old daughter, Monica, struggles with her writing. I see the struggle. I see it because I can see that she wants her writing to mean something. She hates it when a piece is not so special.
I understand. Because I also struggle with my writing. It's not worth it to me to just say phony bologna. I want it to stir people up. To touch their hearts. To be truthful to what I've lived and what I've observed. To transform.
The thing I've learned about writing is that it's more powerful than any weapon. It has the power to hurt. It has the power to heal. Words are fierce.
So today, at Monica's school, she received an end-of-the year award as the most insightful writer in 8th grade.
Our whole family is beaming with pride.
Did it come easy for her? Nope. Because she struggles. But the thing is, all good written pieces, in my experience, are preceded by struggle. As I always say to Monica, if the writing is too easy, you're not doing it right. If it's a struggle, you're doing it right.
Here's to Monica. And the long road ahead of her as she continues to write amazing and insightful works. And as she travels this path, it is my prayer that she will use this amazing tool to touch people's hearts, to do good, to create peace.
We are very proud of you, Monica. We love you. Your mom, dad, Andrew, Toby, and Scout.
Brava! You've taught her well; no wonder she is such a special young woman.
Posted by: Judi | May 20, 2010 at 08:07 PM
That is so great! Congratulations to Monica!
Posted by: kelly lish | May 20, 2010 at 08:08 PM
It must be in the genes! Congrats to Monica for fighting the wordy battle. You are so right, it is a struggle! What a honor for a young writer to receive; An award of hope and
recognition!
Posted by: Ellen | May 20, 2010 at 08:55 PM
Congratulations Monica. When you have worked so hard it makes it even more special.
Alison
Posted by: Alison Gibbs | May 20, 2010 at 10:52 PM
The apple does not fall far from the tree. And your roots Jenny, are very deeply grounded.
Posted by: becky shander | May 21, 2010 at 05:20 AM
Congratulations to Monica!!! That is fabulous! And good for her for exploring the true art of writing!
Posted by: Jingle | May 21, 2010 at 09:34 AM
Hi Jenny, I've recently started following your wonderful blog so thought I leave a little comment by way of a hello. It's much to your credit that Monica has such perseverence in a society where instant gratification is vey much the order of the day. Congratulations to both of you.
Posted by: Julie Broom | May 21, 2010 at 12:20 PM
You ALL deserve to be proud! Monica of herself and you all as nurturing and inspiring family members.
Posted by: Dani Larcom | May 21, 2010 at 02:39 PM
What an achievement for all of you! :)
Posted by: Sandra Lee | May 21, 2010 at 09:13 PM
You have every reason to be proud!!! You are a wonderful role model for her. Best wishes on the launch party...wish I was there!
Posted by: Debe Leone | May 22, 2010 at 11:52 AM
wow, congratulations on such a special award to a hard working and deserving young woman. that is quite the accomplishment!
Posted by: kecia | May 22, 2010 at 06:54 PM
monica...congrats! did you know that you share the same initials as a famous mouse?
Posted by: louis lemoine | May 24, 2010 at 01:32 PM